Scenario 1
11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns
wrong move
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings
awaken by the phone rings,
guy: hello?
gal: ..............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
guy: b....but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
gal: you already said want to slee p already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go
sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that
do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not
because afraid that i will be unhappy...
in the end, guy spend another ?comforting gal, actual sleep time is
11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what
worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
Scenario 2
the right move
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you
have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then
(still sounding out)
never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i
give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the
reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one
hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember
to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call
from gal the next day...
conclusion 1:
girls want feelings of caring. most of the time, girls' logic cannot be figured out with a reasoning mind.
conclusion 2:
say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than ˝hr of precious time
conclusion 3:
when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will be disastrous...
conclusion 4:
if your girlfriend isn't like the one in this example, then congrats to you mannn! treasure her!
but if she does, dont accuse her of being unreasonable. they are just being what
they are!
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